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danceforthatanarchy: afternoonsnoozebutton: brooklynmutt: @Chu...

Sat, 25 May 2013 15:44:13 -0400

afternoonsnoozebutton:

brooklynmutt:

@ChuckWendig: Facebook will not remove rape culture photo from its site as it doesn’t qualify as “hate speech.”

via @EverydaySexism

This is fucking bullshit

surprise, surprise. fedbook doesn’t consider “RAPE HER” hate speech.

josefinejonsson: Model: Elegy EllemUnderbust: Viola...

Sat, 25 May 2013 13:26:32 -0400

josefinejonsson:

Model: Elegy Ellem
Underbust: Viola Lahger
Jewelery: Sinners and Saviours
Photo: Josefine Jönsson

zooophagous: oh my FUCKING GOODNESS LOOK AT YOU GIVE IT TO...

Sat, 25 May 2013 13:23:14 -0400

zooophagous:

oh my FUCKING GOODNESS LOOK AT YOU

GIVE IT TO MEEEEEEEE

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Sat, 25 May 2013 10:21:14 -0400

skyliting: losertakesall: ilikeprettyclothes: fromcarouseltoha...

Sat, 25 May 2013 10:16:53 -0400

skyliting:

losertakesall:

ilikeprettyclothes:

fromcarouseltohair:

allyssumdays:

Everyone has rolls when they bend over. Everyone. Lets just get this out of the way right off the bat. In the last few months, I’ve had over 30 women ranging from rail thin to extra large naked in my bed and I would routinely ask them to hug their knees. You won’t believe this… ALL OF THEM HAD TUMMY ROLLS. Not one was exempt. Even my super fabulous professional model 6 foot tall and some amazing Katie had rolls. The stomach pictures turned into some of my favorite images from the project… so quit thinking they’re bad, and try accepting (dare I say embracing?) yours!

When people say “you’re gorgeous”, believe them. I tend not to, and it’s a cryin’ shame. When people genuinely compliment you, it’s because they really see it. Try to not dismiss their perspective as wrong and assume that you know better. They see all of you. We see our flaws. Believe them.

“Arm flab is embarrassing.” No its not, go fuck yourself. No, not you. The people who tell us that, silly.

You’re not stunning despite your body. You’re stunning because of your body. There is a distinct difference. I grew up in a culture that would deem “unattractive” women as “special spirits”. A degrading categorization that implied that the only thing worthwhile was whatever was inside. Well, yeah. We are all much much more than our bodies, but our bodies are a beautiful part of us too. Beauty comes from the inside AND the outside. I am of the firm belief that every person is beautiful, and so this leaves the inside to be the part that is the most telling when it comes to true “beauty”.

A guy can pick you up off your feet, and it won’t break his back. “Wait, whaaaaaa Jes? You’re full of shit.” Nope. This just happened to me for the first time in… six years? I’m considerably heavier than I was 6 years ago (like… 70 pounds heavier) and so when I ran up to my friend Eric for a hug and he picked me up with my heels in the air… it left me breathless. I had forgotten that it was possible; I had accepted a life void of being lifted. So exhilarating. Eric didn’t suffer any injuries and walked away unscathed.

You don’t need to exercise every day in order to feel better about yourself. Many believe that someone who’s fat needs to exercise as much as possible in order to prove that they’re committed to becoming “less fat”. As if accepting one’s body as is would be a sin, and that’s just silly. Yes, exercising has wonderful physical and mental benefits, but you don’t owe it to anyone else to make an effort to change your body unless you wanna. You do not have to alter yourself to be okay. Period.

You’re allowed to fall in love with yourself. I promise. This will be the scariest thing you will ever do, and that’s okay. It will also be the most amazing (albeit super gradual) experience you will ever have. It doesn’t make you narcissistic. It doesn’t make you vain. It is liberating in every form of the word.

It’s also okay to have days where you don’t love yourself. Read this. No really. Read it. And then realize that we’ve grown up learning and internalizing that we are not okay our entire life. For me, that’s 26 years of self-hate indoctrination and brainwashing. It’s going to take a lot longer than you think to reverse this thinking, and it’s definitely not going to happen overnight. Allow yourself to have “weak” days. Cry, mourn, sob, yell, throw things. Whichever. Then get up, brush yourself off, give the media the finger, and move forward because you’re a warrior.

Everyone’s boobs are uneven. If you have a lot of boobs, they might be way uneven. Don’t stress. This is totally normal.

There are people who prefer large ladies. And I mean all sizes of large. I thought that my best bet in life was to find a partner who accepted my fat. Pause. Give me a minute to hang my head and shake it at myself. Not only are there people who adore “thick” women, but a LOT of them who prefer it. This eventually ends up in an interesting territory which Marianne talks about here, but the point that I’m trying to make goes back to the “despite vs because of” argument. Here is what you need to know: you do NOT need to settle for a lover who is “okay” with your body. You have the right (and millions of opportunities) to find someone who is infatuated with your body. You deserve to be worshiped, woman!

Fat chicks bang hot guys… ALL. THE. TIME.I know that hot is relative and all inclusive depending on who you chat with, but for these purposes, lets talk about the “universally attractive” kind of hot. Y’know, the kind fat chicks don’t deserve? We want to pretend that we don’t know what I’m talking about, but lets be real; we totally do. The fact that “fat chicks bang ‘hot’ guys” was one of the most powerful realizations I’ve had thus far. In line with the above paragraph, I knew that there would be someone that would find me attractive but the pool would be small (because of my body) and potentially full of guys I didn’t personally find sexy. So I would have to settle for anyone that would take me. After all, how could a conventionally gorgeous man (tall and with tattoos of course) like fat chicks? Weh-he-hell, let me tell you somethin’: through various sites, events, parties, and corner store meetings, I found myself with over a hundred men who were champing at the bit to get with this. I was the one who had to sift through and pick the hottest of the hot. Ladies, over a hundred. “Girls” showed what society thinks about that when Hannah’s character has a weekend romance with an attractive and wealthy doctor. People flipped their shit. “Patrick Wilson is so hot he would never do Lena Dunham” was the most eye catching. Wilson’s wife responded to that rubbish here, but the tweet speaks volumes about what the majority of people think unconventional women deserve. Jesus christ, it’s annoying. I won’t spill the details of my bedroom coming and goings, but lets just say this: the hottest guys in Tucson and I get along just fine. I would recommend reading Emily’s article on xoJane for a better explanation of what I’m struggling to say. Know this: the myth that “atypical” bodies can’t be paired with “typically attractive” bodies is false. Women need to know that all bodies can be paired with all bodies.

Riding during sex will NOT collapse his insides. Just trust me on this one, what you fear is totally false. Here’s a great article that changed my life.

Wearing whatever you want is a political statement. Join the revolution. Throw style rules out the window. Wear the tutu. Wear the horizontal stripes. Wear the turquoise skinny jeans. Wear the see-through blouse. Wear the bikini. Wear the sweat pants. Wear the shirt that says “Does this shirt make me look fat?”. Wear whatever it is that makes you happy. This is your life.

You are fucking beautiful. I’m saying this with a straight face and seriously meaningful look where I maintain eye contact for an uncomfortable amount of time. I know you don’t feel like you fit into the category of gorgeous that our world creates. I know that its hard. I know that its a daily battle. But fuck their fascist beauty standards. The second you stop looking for a skinny model in your mirror and start looking at YOU… is the second you will start to appreciate what you are. Stop looking for flaws. Stop looking for differences. You are perfect. You are more than enough. You are the best thing that has ever happened to you. And you are fucking beautiful.

Say it with me.

I’m actively sobbing.

Reblogging again because of awesomeness.

I can’t even handle this right now.

Well, I’m not sure I’m in a place where I’m comfortable with believing her, but I love that she says it. I also love her multitone purple hair and her leopard spotted badass shirt.

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Sat, 25 May 2013 00:01:58 -0400

TO ALL MY BUSTY LADIES

Fri, 24 May 2013 18:07:21 -0400

banal-adventures:

FRUIT OF THE LOOM HAS MADE CHEAP NON-BEIGE LARGE-SIZE BRAS

I REPEAT: NON-BEIGE

LOOK AT THIS SUCKER

THIS COMES IN UP TO SIZE 42DD

IF YOU BUY TWO IT’S $20

PLUS THEY HAVE A BRA WHERE YOU CAN CUSTOMIZE EACH CUP

TUMBLR NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS

kkdas: Yoga Inspiration ॐ

Fri, 24 May 2013 15:02:28 -0400

kkdas:

Yoga Inspiration

ॐ

killette: “How will your tattoos look when you’re old?!”Pretty...

Fri, 24 May 2013 15:00:50 -0400

killette:

“How will your tattoos look when you’re old?!”
Pretty fucking bad ass apparently.

"I was born with a reading list I will never finish."

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:54:41 -0400

“I was born with a reading list I will never finish.”

- Maud Casey (via weaverofstars)

Because of my ever growing annoyance with instadommes as of late, my focus online will be the fetish...

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:54:22 -0400

Because of my ever growing annoyance with instadommes as of late, my focus online will be the fetish world I do adore so much. Exploring your fetishes as well as fetishes that seem to intrigued me for some reason or another. Do not confuse this with me no longer being dominant. Being dominant is not an occupation it is part of my personality. I am a kinky dominant bitch. That will never change. My energies will go elsewhere. Plus there are things I wish to purpose business wise with the Mr. :-D

unicornkween: trilliansthoughts: This miniature ecosystem has...

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:51:21 -0400

unicornkween:

trilliansthoughts:

This miniature ecosystem has been thriving in an almost completely isolated state for more than forty years. It has been watered just once in that time.

The original single spiderwort plant has grown and multiplied, putting out seedlings. As it has access to light, it continues to photosynthesize. The water builds up on the inside of the bottle and then rains back down on the plants in a miniature version of the water cycle.

As leaves die, they fall off and rot at the bottom producing the carbon dioxide and nutrients required for more plants to grow.

This intrigues me as a scientist. I wish to attempt it.

"I’m not gonna sit around and waste my precious divine energy trying to explain and be ashamed of..."

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:43:49 -0400

“I’m not gonna sit around and waste my precious divine energy trying to explain and be ashamed of things you think are wrong with me.”

- Esperanza Spalding ( (via uglypoem)

rattlecanjunky: rebloggable by request

Fri, 24 May 2013 14:33:26 -0400

rattlecanjunky:

rebloggable by request

tangiblesoul: trynabecarefree: That little girl at the end is...

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:21:41 -0400

tangiblesoul:

trynabecarefree:

That little girl at the end is like fuck yes

I’ve been waiting for this gifset lol

yasssss

izzetheking: if you say bloody romney 3 times in the mirror with the lights out mitt romney will...

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:39:20 -0400

izzetheking:

if you say bloody romney 3 times in the mirror with the lights out mitt romney will pop out of the mirror and take away your basic rights as a woman

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Fri, 24 May 2013 12:22:04 -0400

irresponsibleeyouth: The trick is to not let people know how really weird you are until it’s too...

Fri, 24 May 2013 12:11:46 -0400

irresponsibleeyouth:

The trick is to not let people know how really weird you are until it’s too late for them to back out.

molotowcocktease: I would be ever so appreciative if you could...

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:35:36 -0400

molotowcocktease:

I would be ever so appreciative if you could all report Venus_n_furs on https://fetlife.com/users/1211360

She is stealing a ton of my pictures & other women’s pictures as well. This is a big reason I don’t post more pictures & am thinking about stopping to post.
She already took a bunch down but there are clearly still a lot up.

I just created a fetlife account of course as molotowcocktease so you can add that if you like.
On my account I posted proof pictures as to discredit her. Because apparently that’s what it takes.

bookoisseur: helms-deep: bobbycaputo: This Incredible Full...

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:10:08 -0400

bookoisseur:

helms-deep:

bobbycaputo:

This Incredible Full Scale Lego X-Wing Is the Largest Model In History

This is truly unbelievable: Lego has built a 1:1 scale model of the X-Wing fighter using an astounding 5,335,200 bricks! It’s as big as the real thing, capable of fitting the real Luke Skywalker—and Porkins.

New summer project idea.

Please tell me someone is building a Lego Mars Rover?